Today the Supreme Court legalized gay marriage in all 50 states. Unless you’re under the illusion that America is a Christian nation, this decision should come as no surprise. This isn’t the first time our country has ignored God’s will and legalized sin. 42 years ago, the Supreme Court granted women the right to murder their own children with immunity, so long as they do it when they’re most vulnerable.
Marriage has been under attack in this country for decades, and most of it has nothing to do with homosexuality. One of the reasons God created marriage in Eden was for the procreation of children. “Be fruitful and multiply” is not a divine suggestion, it’s a mandate (Genesis 1:28). There are many reasons for the decline of the Church today, but the single biggest reason is because Christian couples aren’t having children the way they used to.
What God has joined together—marriage, sex, and procreation—man has separated. When we treat sex as though it had nothing to do with marriage and procreation, you can have it whenever you want (married or not), with whomever you want, without regard for gender—and perhaps eventually, even age or species. The unwanted pregnancy is handled the same way you would treat a nagging cold. Take a few pills, and if symptoms persist, you might need to go in for a more elaborate procedure.
God also created marriage to give us a place to practice self-giving love and forgiveness. We turn this on its head and regard marriage as a means to selfish personal fulfillment. When you finally realize that perfect man or woman is actually a really bad sinner just like you, no problem! Just get a divorce and remarry as many times as it takes until you finally really mean it when you say “until death do us part.” Unless the rest of the country catches up to Utah, we’ll just have to settle for serial polygamy.
So before we get too worked up about gay marriage, let’s be clear: heterosexuals have been doing a fine job destroying marriage all by themselves. It’s not like the less than 2% of gay Americans have come in and overthrown the government. In a democracy, the majority rules, and the masses have spoken. The Supreme Court has only affirmed the inevitable. As a friend of mine recently observed, the people who are supportive of this decision are not radicals; many are members in good standing of Lutheran congregations.
The fact that Christians support something so contrary to God’s will goes to show the depth of our corruption. However loving it may seem, it is never loving to condone what God calls sin—and despite what the Queen James Bible says, homosexuality is sin. But the homosexuality of others is just a speck when compared with your own sin. As our Lord says,
“How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me take out the speck that is in your eye,’ when you yourself do not see the log that is in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take out the speck that is in your brother’s eye,” (Luke 6:42).
So what should the Church do in response to the Supreme Court’s decision? The same thing She always does: repent. Repent of your own sexual sin, whether it’s heterosexual or homosexual. You’ll never be able to help your neighbor with the speck in his eye while ignoring the log in your own. Repent of your failure to love your neighbors enough to be compassionate and warn them about the dangers of their own sin. Be steadfast and continue to confess the truth of God’s Word as it pertains to marriage and human sexuality, no matter how unpopular it may be. Jesus forgives the penitent, both gay and straight. What He cannot forgive are those who reject His Word outright and stubbornly persist in their sin.
We’d much rather opt for the “live and let live” approach, which sounds a little like something Jesus once said: “judge not, and you will not be judged” (Luke 6:37). Telling someone what they’re doing is wrong is no fun, so the “live and let live” approach helps us avoid any uncomfortable confrontations. Better yet, if we avoid judging the behavior of others, then they have no right to judge ours either, and we can live however we please, judgment-free.
The problem with this is that Jesus didn’t mean “live and let live.” Scripture repeatedly warns us about the danger of sin and the coming judgment of God. Christians are not free to live however they please and decide for themselves what’s right and wrong.
Nor would Jesus have you turn a blind eye to the sin of those around you, even if that sin is legal in our country. Instead, He urges you to help your neighbor avoid falling into a pit, which is exactly what happens when someone becomes trapped in sin (Luke 6:39). Sin is nothing to celebrate. Jesus likens it to having a splinter in your eye (Luke 6:41-42). Turning a blind eye to something like that is the opposite of compassion.
The nations will continue to rage and plot in vain against God and His Word (Psalm 2:1), but we remain faithful. Even if the United States were to pass laws making Christianity illegal, our citizenship remains in heaven (Philippians 3:20). We stand fast, knowing that Christ will never forsake His Bride, the Church. We trust His promise that this creation will one day be set free from its bondage to decay (Romans 8:21), a promise which is as certain as Jesus’ victory over the grave.